Bisexual Men Exist : A Handbook For Bisexual, Pansexual and M-spec Men - Vaneet MehtaPaperback. Jessica Kingsley Publishers. "You're just being greedy." "Are you sure you're not gay?" "Pick a side." Being a bisexual man isn't easy something Vaneet Mehta knows all too well. After spending more than a decade figuring out his identity, Vaneet's coming out was met with questioning, ridicule and erasure. This experience inspired Vaneet to create the viral #BisexualMenExist campaign, combatting the hate and scepticism m spec (multi gender